Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website Faqs

Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website FAQs – 8

I am shy about sex.

You and about 4 billion other human beings on the planet are shy about sex; you are certainly not alone. Many of us have been subjected to some pretty harsh negative social conditioning telling us that sex is bad, dirty and dangerous. Perhaps it can be, but it does not have to be that way. If you want to learn about a healthy, mature, adult sexuality this is the time and place to do it. If you want to reclaim your birthright of being in a body and experiencing the pleasure and emotional connection and spiritual awakening that sacred sex makes possible, this is the time and place to do that.

Don’t be like the thirsty person walking around in a rain storm with an umbrella over their head, refusing to drink. Come to the water’s edge. Take a drink. Have a swim. Find out that the water is warm and safe and nurturing and good. Sex is good. Sex with love is magnificent. Sex as a spiritual practice is over the top. Don’t you want some? Take the very small risk of becoming a member just for one month and see what is available. You will be glad that you did.

Oh yes, on our website you can remain completely anonymous. No one needs to know who you are.

Al and Pala

Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website FAQs – 7

I want to be sure that you will respect and appeal to my learning style.

We have been careful to appeal to all possible learning styles, presenting the curriculum in multi-media richness including text (reading), audio (listening), video (watching), and live interaction (chat, forums and teleseminars). Much of the content is delivered in the form of exercises that lovers can do alone and together in order to develop high levels of skill mastery with repetitions and practice over time. We are quite confident that all learners will find the mode of presentation best suited to how they like to learn new information and skill.

Al and Pala

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I want a site with more information and more material.

First, it is not just about the quantity of material. It is about the quality of the right material.

Second, if there is something you are looking for but can’t find on our website, send us an email and let us know what that is. We will do our best to provide everything that is important to you and also relevant to the theme of this website, creating sexy spiritual relationships.

Third, we do believe our content goes very deep and is comprehensive covering almost everything that we have discovered to be of significance in helping couples be happy growing old together. We will continue to add new content and build the site over the months and years to come.

We have some great things already in the works to surprise you with following our initial launch of the site. Right now we have a complete Kama Sutra home study course available, and will be releasing the complete Tantra home study course sometime this fall, probably in September. Look for our Tantra home study course launch event at that time.

In order to avoid overload, we will introduce the curriculum to our members sequenced over the weeks and months to come, a little bit at a time. This sequence is designed to take you step by step up the ladder of relationship happiness. What comes later, requires the pre-requisites of the lessons that have preceded it. If you are enrolled for at least one year, the archived material you can access will go very deep and will be more than the average person could possibly use, at least all at once.

You could sabotage your ultimate progress by trying to jump ahead too rapidly, or acquiring too much information too soon. First you build a firm learning foundation, then you expand up and out with additional lessons.  First you walk, then you run, and eventually you fly. Remember that your knowledge will almost certainly exceed your skill for the early months of your membership. Much of our curriculum is experiential, requiring you to practice what you are learning in order to develop skill. As your skill catches up with your knowledge, your progress will become much more rapid, irresistible and irreversible.

Al and Pala

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Perhaps someone else could help us better than you can?

There are many excellent teachers, coaches and guides around Planet Earth, and with the Internet it is relatively easy to find them. By all means shop around to see who else is out there. We have looked at this closely when we started developing the curriculum for this membership website, and frankly, we know of nothing else by any other teachers that come even close to what you will find at our website. Some can do and some can teach; we are blessed to be able to do and to teach. Don’t underestimate the importance of good teaching skills when searching for someone to guide you.

The sequence of material you will be introduced to each month is very powerful and very dynamic. It is designed to appeal to all learning styles, including text (reading), audio (listening), video (watching), and live interaction (chat, forums and teleseminars).

The contents are directed to all levels of your being including body, mind, heart, and soul. We help you learn to become master lovers (great sex techniques based upon the classic Kama Sutra), to re-connect sex and spirit (sacred sex practices from Tantric and Taoist traditions), and to undertake a spiritual quest together leading all the way to enlightenment if you want to take it that far–we call this section Enlightenment for Two(TM). All of this from the comfort of your own home!

Al experienced enlightenment in January 2008, the culmination of almost 40 years of spiritual quest, and transmitted it into Pala within minutes. We will act as your spiritual guides in your search for the highest direct experience of pure consciousness–the absolute ground of all being. We teach based upon having been there, not just based upon theoretical knowledge learned from reading books others have written.

Our curriculum is original, authentic, and effective.

Al and Pala

Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website FAQs – 4

I doubt if you can do what you say; that you can really help us create a relationship that satisfies through and through and lasts a lifetime together.

When undertaking a new learning journey, doubting yourself is normal, but your risk is very small to find out how much and how effectively we can help you create a happy fulfilling relationship.

Our reputation on the Internet is well and long established, dating back to 1997 when we first started working with couples. We have saved many a marriage. We have helped hundreds of couples learn to create love and to be happy together. Read some of the testimonials from those who we have already worked with to see what they say.

These are all real people, ordinary people, people just like yourselves. If they can do it, so can you. We can help you learn what you need to learn to do it.

Al and Pala

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I’m not confident that I will be able to understand your material and apply it to my relationship.

Absolutely you will be able to understand the material and apply it in your relationship. Furthermore, you will have lots of fun learning the things we teach. We go to great lengths to make sure the material is easily understandable and applied. Everything is broken down into small steps, so you take one  step at a time, at your own speed. Chew on it, digest it, and only when you are ready do you take the next step. This curriculum is presented in a sequence suitable for the busiest people. We start you at the beginning and you progress from where you are along a learning path completely suitable to both of you. It is designed to appeal to all learning styles, including text (reading), audio (listening), video (watching), and live interaction (chat, forums and teleseminars).The contents are directed to all levels of your being including body, mind, heart, and soul.

Al and Pala

Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website FAQs – 2

I don’t have time to make use of the material.

We all have the same 24 hours each day. Our only freedom in time is how to use it. It is said, "if you want something done, give it to a busy person to do." The time required to use the membership site is perhaps 20-30 minutes per day, less time than you spend watching a TV sit com or the evening news. Remember, "I don’t have time for something" is really saying "It does not matter to me; it is not really important to me." Think about what is important to you. If your relationship is one of those things, you must spend time on it in order to make it thrive.

Al and Pala

 Does this sound like you? Scenario 2 – Bad Love

Your relationship has become stale and the passion has gone out of it. You find yourself doubting your commitment to stay together.

The relationship has become hard work and the benefits are few and far between. You have lost touch with your love and wonder if your partner still loves you. The sex has become repetitive, predictable and boring, or even worse, painful and embarrassing. In fact it is rapidly dwindling to no sex at all–and a part of you is actually relieved at that! When you do have sex it is fast sex (10-15 minutes start to finish) with little or no emotional connection and devoid of spiritual value.

You are both so busy with the many demands of your busy lives that you can’t remember the last time you spent 4 hours or more just paying attention to each other as lovers. Everything else has become more important than your relationship, including the kids, work, and shamefully, even watching television! You may also be dealing with some serious health challenges, but you know that you are too young for that to be happening already. By the end of a busy day, you both drop exhausted into bed and hope the other one will just go to sleep and not expect any sexual performance because you simply have nothing left to give them except frustration and disappointment.

Possibly one or both of you have already had an affair. You wonder about the dangers of STDs and if your partner has been careful, or you are feeling guilty knowing that you have not been so careful.

You realize that unprotected sex means that you are sleeping with everyone your partner has ever slept with, and you have no idea of who are how many that may have been. Nevertheless, you feel somewhat powerless to resist the temptation of an affair because it offers a bit of quick excitement, pleasure and comes with none of the emotional, psychological and spiritual baggage attached to your marriage (or relationship with your current partner).

You are feeling overwhelmed, unattractive, and unlovable, at the breaking point with frustration, alienation, isolation and loneliness. You are feeling angry most of the time, about everything, and about nothing at all. You are constantly judging your partner for all the faults you perceive them to have–but even knowing this is mostly just projection from yourself onto them and that it is unfair to them, you can’t seem to help yourself.

You are arguing frequently, and the personal attacks during your arguments are escalating. You are feeling more and more powerless to turn things around and do not know where to begin. You are becoming numb to your feelings, feeling less and less, other than the anger, and find yourself wondering if you will ever again feel excited, aroused and sexually turned on by your life partner. You are becoming desperate to find something to help you try to turn this around before it is to late.

Could the best of your life already be over? NO! Definitely not!

You can turn this around. That is what we can help you do with a membership at Sexy Spiritual Relationships.

all good things,

Al and Pala

Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership Website FAQs – 1

I want to become part of a dynamic interactive learning community.

Certainly; that is exactly what we are creating with this rich multi-media curriculum, including many live and interactive features. Using our chat options you can meet with and talk live, including cam video chat, with other members to share ideas and find answers to each other’s questions. You can even find partners with whom you can try the various methods we are suggesting in case you do not already have a partner, or if you are a couple wanting to meet and interact with other couples.  In our forums, you will be able to find answers to every conceivable question about romance, relationships, sex, sacred sex, and spiritual practice. As the membership grows, and as more and more featured experts join the community, the depth of information available will expand dramatically.

Al and Pala

PS: if you want to get on our mailing list so you don’t miss any announcements go to At the top right corner you can subscribe to the Sexy Spiritual Relationships Pre-Launch newsletter.

Does this sound like you?

Sexy Spiritual Relationships: Scenario 3 – Spiritual Quest

"Only as high as I reach can I grow, only as far as I seek can I go, only as deep as I look can I see, only as much as I dream can
I be."  Our Inward Journey by Karen Ravn
Life is good, but however good that is (even really, really, really good), you still know inside "This can’t be all there is. There has to be more." Not more fame and fortune. Not more money, sex and power. Not more success, accomplishment, recognition and status. As wonderful as these things are they can’t fill that need you feel gnawing away at you from a place deep inside yourself. The longing you feel is a spiritual hunger.

You know you have a mind and that you think, but you are not your thoughts, not your mind. You have a body. Pleasure and sex are good, but you are not your body. You feel love, but you are not your feelings. You have a personality, but you are not your personality. You are not your beliefs, assumptions, perception, feelings or thoughts. You are not the roles you play in life: man, woman, child, adult, son, daughter, father, mother, husband, wife, citizen, teacher, guru, boss, employee, leader, follower, artist, super star, famous person, powerful person, powerless person, poor person, rich person, beautiful person, popular person, outcast, sick, healthy, smart, ignorant, educated, uneducated, etc.

None of these things can account for your true self; none of these things can contain your true self. Your essence is not limited to any or even to all of this. If all of these things are taken away, and they will be taken away–nothing in this world lasts and no one gets out of life alive; if all of that vanishes, what is left of you? You ask yourself: "Where am I in all of this?"

This is a pivotal point in your life. Once you open this door, there is no turning back. You are now asking the big questions, the fundamental questions:

*   Who am I?
*   What is ego?
*   What is the soul?
*   Why am I here?
*   What is my purpose in life?
*   Why do I do anything?
*   What ultimately matters to me?
*   How can I make a true and lasting contribution to the world?
*   What does it mean to follow my bliss?
*   Where did I come from?
*   Where do I return?
*   What is death?
*   What comes after death?
*   What is peace of mind that passeth all understanding?
*   Is happiness possible?
*   What is good?
*   What is love?
*   What is holy?
*   What is real?
*   What is evil?
*   Is there a solution to fear, pain and suffering in the world?
*   Is there greatness in me?
*   What is destiny?
*   What is fate?
*   What is karma?
*   What is character? Am I a person of character?
*   What are good and bad decisions and choices?
*   How can I be all that I was meant to be?
*   What are my rights and responsibilities and freedoms in this
body, in this world, in this lifetime?
*   How do I reclaim my freedom?
*   What is surrender–surrender to what, surrender to whom?
*   Is anything absolute?
*   What is God?
*   What is illumination, liberation, realization, awakening,
nirvana, Samadhi, moksha, enlightenment?
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
Author unknown
You are not alone. Open the door. Enter. Others are waiting patiently to lend a helping hand. Jump into the abyss. Take out a membership and begin or continue your spiritual quest.

Come to the edge.
We might fall.
Come to the edge.
It’s too high!
And they came,
and he pushed,
and they flew.
(Christopher Logue – English Poet 1926-)

all good things,
Al and Pala

Does this sound like you?

Scenario 1 – New Love

Your relationship is meaningful and rich. You are in love. You have good sex, communicate well and are in touch with your feelings. You are beginning to follow some spiritual path and are serious about personal growth. You want to become all you can be; the acorn is ready to become a full bloom oak tree, beautiful and glorious. You plan to grow old together. But, you have a nagging suspicion that this goodness can’t last. The passion will cool, the love will fade and you will start taking each other for granted.

You are both already stretched to the limit with the many demands of your busy lives including children (perhaps a child is on the way or you already have one or several young ones), family and work responsibilities. You love all of these things, but there just is not enough time to do everything that you want to do and that needs doing. Money is tight and a source of stress between you, one of the few things you disagree about and even occasionally argue about–but the arguments are quite civilized, and you usually make love afterwards and that is wonderful as usual.

You are already thinking about getting older, and the many different choices you could have made about what to do with your life, and who you could have done them with. You have a few minor health challenges, nothing major or serious, just annoying. Many of your friends are already divorced, and they seem to be having the time of their lives, running around free and easy–although secretly you wonder if they are really as happy as they let on, while some of them are openly hostile, angry and unhappy with themselves and their lives.

You are determined to do better, to do it right, to make your relationship last, nay, to make it thrive, to be really happy and fulfilled with each other. You realize that you need to learn some new knowledge and skill about relationship happiness, not to mention a healthy mature sexuality. You are reading some books on these subjects. You have heard about Tantra and the Kama Sutra, and you are curious, but a bit shy about it all. You want to be a great lover, not just average. You really want to do it for each other, to make the earth tremble and shake when you come together.

You want to give your children everything, the best chance possible to become happy and successful. You believe that one of the most important things you can do for your children is to model a happy relationship in which both of you are sexually fulfilled and spiritually growing. Taking time for each other; openly showing affection; allowing your children to know that you are sexually active and sexually fulfilled, is an important and essential aspect of helping them to learn how to create the same for themselves as they mature into young adults.

You know that the best of your life is yet to come and you are prepared to work toward learning on a path of personal, professional and spiritual growth. You want to undertake this learning journey with your partner. Enlightenment for Two(TM) sounds intriguing indeed. You want to learn primarily from the comfort of your own home from teachers and mentors you can trust; people who have a track record of successfully helping others learn to be all they can be. You are looking for a multi-media curriculum including a balance between sexuality, sacred sexuality, and spirituality.

You want the presentation to be mature, adult, tasteful, respectful and explicit without being sleazy. You want video in addition to audio and text materials. You want the material sequenced over a period of time that fits with your busy demanding schedule, so you will not get frustrated, drop behind and quit prematurely. You want a curriculum that balances body, mind, heart and soul. You want a curriculum that makes it possible to apply what you learn immediately to see some quick results, but you want to be able to go on learning for the rest of your life.

You have come to the right place—Sexy Spiritual Relationships membership website. The best is yet to come. This website presents all that you could need or want to accomplish all of these things that are so important in your lives together.

all good things,
Al and Pala